For the first time since 2012 I feel that I have a sense of purpose and something to work towards. In the course of these 3 years I’ve failed, succeeded, gave up, tried again, and started from scratch all with the purpose of finding out who the hell I am. This takes practice, spending time alone, writing and saying no to a lot of people. I’ve defined what I want to create in this world and I have to do everything that I can to help those dreams become a reality. I’m no longer distracted from the outside world because I’ve created habits* that keep me focused.
*Disclaimer: this is an ongoing process.
The short version and answer: it takes hard work, focus and dedication.
However, what it starts with is making sure to have a clear vision set.
This allows me to practice what I preach, to have somewhat of a blueprint for others to follow or use as their guide – although I know every single person will have a different framework for making their dreams become a reality.
My job right now is to help facilitate that path. To get people moving in the literal form through physical movement, but also get their minds moving, and to continuously stay moving on the path towards their goals and even redefining them along the way.
What made me decide that this is my path? It just felt right. It aligns with how I want to feel and what I want to do every single day:
- feel free
- be bold
- be daring
- be adventurous
Some simple strategies that may help you figure this out:
- Know when to say no to things that may disappoint others.
- Understanding the value and importance of your decision.
- Understanding the why behind it.
- Write down your goals. What you’re thinking and feeling. Don’t think about them. Write.them.down.
I believe a lot of this takes practice. Some people are lucky to find their path to success/happiness/enlightenment at an early stage. Others, have to throw out ideas, see what sticks try and fail hundreds of times, to see what works – and what you align yourself with.
At the end of the day, do work that matters & do what feels right.
“Risk the narrative and make a difference.” – Seth Godin