What do I want to say? This is the first question I always ask myself before I even begin writing. I read some blogs from my favorite people, listen to some music, take notes, highlight quotes from my favorite books - all in hope to get some inspiration to just start.
I get these urges when I know I have a lot I want to write, yet nothing ever comes out as clear as I’d like it to be – or at least coherent for those of you reading this.
The hardest part is always starting. Always.
So, what do I want to say?
Life is a big beautiful mess. Everyone is going through it, and there’s no way to go around it or avoid it.
Going through emails, I came across one from Rog on choosing not to fail or choosing to win. They both mean the same thing, but it’s how you’re perceiving and initiating your choices that make the outlook brighter, and more manageable.
Everyone fails at something in life. It’s a guaranteed part of being human. However, mentally preparing yourself for failure won’t get you anywhere. Feelings of being stuck, or depressed, or unsure-of-what-to-do-next-so-you-don’t-do-anything aren’t pathways that lead to success. Changing your mentality of being capable of actually winning at whatever it is you want to achieve vs. thinking it’s absolutely impossible leads to action.
Asking for help doesn’t hurt the process either. I’ve learned over the course of the years that some of my best ideas, efforts and successes come from being in the trenches – and using my resources to help get me out.
Understanding the depths of each situation and how it makes me feel allows me to move upwards and be proactive in my decisions - in a positive fashion. Failure is inevitable. Reaching for the top is a choice; and it’s risky, scary and everything in between – and without a doubt, worth it.